Imagine It…..If You Can

Indian Residential Schools: Acts of genocide, deceit, and control

Children’s graves a crime against humanity

Many Canadians don’t seem to care about lasting effects of Residential Schools

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Imagine, if you can, the idea of having someone show up at your front door one fine day, armed with a court order from the government that authorizes them to take away your children, ages six and seven, and send them 500 miles away to be raised and educated in a state- or church-run residential school.

Inconceivable!  Couldn’t happen!  I mean, we all have our rights as citizens of this fair land, and so do our children, right?

Nevertheless, try to imagine your horror if it did happen.  Imagine seeing your children whisked away in a government vehicle, in the company of two stern, efficient-looking caseworkers, and you rendered powerless to stop it by the police in attendance.

Imagine your grief when you enter your children’s empty bedroom that first evening, only to see their favourite cuddly-toys lying on their beds, overlooked by the uncaring abductors in their rush to pack and go.

Unthinkable!  This is Canada, after all.

Still, imagine the anger engulfing you as you try over and over again—always in vain—to find out why this happened. 

Imagine your frustration as every phone call, every letter, every face-to-face meeting, every court appearance results in the same outcome.  You are told time after time, endlessly, that your children have been removed to a ‘wonderful facility’ to ensure they receive the best education, the best care, the best upbringing—all designed to guarantee they will eventually fit into the culture and norms of the broader society in which we all live, unencumbered by the standards and values that you, as their parents, might otherwise have instilled in them.

Impossible!  No one has the authority to take children away from their parents unless those parents are deemed unfit.

So then, imagine your shock when you learn that the authorities do consider you unfit to raise your own children.  And why would that be?  Well, maybe because you look different than they do, or you speak a different language, or you worship differently, or you are uneducated, perhaps impoverished, or you don’t live in a respectable neighbourhood—or any of a number of other specious reasons they offer up in support of their decision.

Imagine going to jail if, overcome by exasperation, you take matters into your own hands to recover your children—illegally, according to those same authorities.

Imagine the weariness that finally overtakes you as you try—always in vain—to fight the inevitable.

This is a silly exercise!  I can’t imagine such a thing happening!  This is Canada!

It’s true, this is Canada.  But indulge me by persevering with the exercise a while longer.  Try to imagine the soul-withering despair you would feel as day after day goes by, week after week, month after month, year after year, and you do not see your children.  Perhaps, if you are lucky, you receive letters from them now and then—more frequently at first, printed in pencil in block capital letters—less often as time passes, in cursive writing, using pen and ink.  And always in English.

Imagine writing letters in return.  What would you say?  How sorry you are that you let this happen to them?  How hard you’ve been trying to get them back home?  How much you miss them?  How much you love them?

And then imagine what you would think when their letters stop.  For how much longer would you continue to write to people you hardly know, perhaps grown into their late-teens by now?  Would you write forever?  With no response?

Couldn’t happen!  The authorities would be obliged to keep me informed.

Really?  So in that case, imagine the overwhelming grief and sense of loss that would sweep over you when you are informed—in an official, impersonal letter, typed in crisp black letters, on school letterhead paper—that your children have died.  They have died!

Shallow graves…..deep scars

Even worse, imagine that they die and you are never informed!  They die, and you never know about it.  Your children!  All you know is they were taken and you’ve never seen them since.  Never is a long, long time.

And finally, perhaps worst of all, imagine that you do learn of their deaths—likely not until long afterwards—but you are never told where their remains have been deposited. Try to imagine the unspeakable horror of knowing that, not only have your children been taken from you, not only have they died, but their very existence has been expunged, as if they never even mattered.

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I spent a happy day this past weekend in the company of my daughters and their families, including my five grandchildren.  And, although I am not usually prone to dark thoughts on such occasions, I tried to imagine what it would have been like if my sweet girls had been taken from me in infancy, what life might have been like if I had never seen them again.

I confess—it was nigh to impossible to imagine my family enduring such a horrendous, calamitous event.  I mean, we have our rights as citizens, and so do our children, right?  No one has the authority to take children away from their parents, right?  I can’t imagine such a thing happening!  This is Canada!

Except…except, such things did happen.  As recently as thirty years ago, and going back almost 200 years.  Right here in Canada. 

It seems to me that what happens next—what our nation does about this—will go a long way to informing us all of what it means to be Canada.

Imagine it…..if you can.

10 thoughts on “Imagine It…..If You Can

  1. I am greatly surprised by the revelations about the children especially in Canada. My lifetime experience of Canadians has been the most cordial of any people I have met.
    To think this really happened is a shock and you know I don’t shock easily.
    We’ll done Brad
    Your erstwhile neighbor,
    Joe

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    • I think these actions from our not-so-distant past are not typical of Canadians’ best angels, but they happened and we own them. I’m curious to see how we as a nation respond and resolve to do better going forward.
      Thanks for the good words.

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  2. Well said Brad , but now imagine that you live in a Country ( the United States) where a major political party ( the Republicans) don’t want certain historical facts (slavery , the holocaust) taught in schools.Just sweep the bad events in our history under the rug ( nothing to see here folks) .George Santayana is credited with saying”those who don’t learn History are doomed to repeat it” and politicians such as Donald Trump , Marjorie Taylor Greene and Matt Gaetz come to mind as people who promote hiding the not so pleasant events of our History .Canadians and Americans need to tell our elected officials that these “ unpleasant events “ need to be kept in the minds of our people so that these events are not repeated.Thanks for the article.

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    • I agree completely! The politicos you mention, and others of their ilk—not to mention some of your Supreme Court Justices—are slowly eroding the fabric of American democracy. I hope the republic’s institutions prove strong enough to withstand their attacks.
      Thanks for commenting!

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  3. Right wing Catholicism enforced by puritanical fools.
    4 Churches ablaze to bring on a day of reckoning
    Ceasing the act of throwing money to feel good about our treatment of Indigenous Canadians
    When power corrupts or corruption gains power, the results make us weak kneed
    Your story brings these facts to light in our backyard
    Brian Sweezey

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    • My understanding of repentance is that there’s an obligation on the penitents to abjure similar behaviours in future. Let’s hope today’s Canadians share that belief.
      Thanks for commenting.

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