In just over a year-and-a-half, I shall reach the age of eighty, and shall therefore be obliged to undergo a mandatory senior’s driving test. I regard my hitting that ripe, old age so quickly as a bizarre twist in the space/time continuum, but there you have it.
By a strange coincidence, the weekly prompt from the writers’ group I belong to in Florida asked us recently to compose something on that very topic—the seniors’ driving exam. Here is the piece I wrote—
I accompanied my eighty-year-old Grandpa Fred to his mandatory driving exam recently. My being there wasn’t because he needed my support, however. Rather, it was to keep my Grandma Ethel, who insisted on going along, out of his hair.
Easier said than done, as it turned out. The oral and written parts of the exam were ordeal enough—but nothing compared to the on-road portion.
In the exam-room, the first question asked of Grandpa was about his vision. Before he could answer, Grandma was heard muttering, “Blind as a bat! Can’t see the forest for the…the bushes, or whatever it is.”
I tried to shush her, but one of the examiners heard, and asked Grandpa if he needed glasses. “Not when he’s drinking beer!” Grandma whispered loudly. “Which is way too often!”
Now it’s true, Grandpa does wear glasses, and is also a tad hard-of-hearing. He often cups his hand behind one ear while listening to someone. The same examiner, noticing that, asked if he could hear properly.
“Deaf as a post!” Grandma groused, loudly enough that even Grandpa heard. “Never hears a word I say!” Grandpa grinned slyly at that.
Still and all, even with Grandma’s unhelpful comments, Grandpa survived the interrogation. But worse was to come during the in-car session. At first, the examiner tried to prevent Grandma from getting into the car at all, per the normal procedures.
“Not a good idea, sonny,” she scoffed. “I’m the one has his meds if he strokes out again.” She patted her purse knowingly as she spoke.
So, she got to come along. But the examiner asked me to join them, as well, in the back seat with Grandma, ostensibly to keep her from interfering. Fat chance!
“Buckle up, Fred!” she ordered as everyone was getting settled. “Click-it-or-ticket, remember what they say?” She was sitting in the seat directly behind him.
As Grandpa slowly eased the car backwards out of the parking slot, Grandma suddenly yelled, “Look out! Look out!” Grandpa stomped on the brake in alarm.
“What the hell, Ethel!” he huffed.
“Don’t you what the hell me!” she quickly replied. “You didn’t even see that other car, did you?”
“What car?” Grandpa exclaimed. “There’s no other car!” I hadn’t seen one, either. The examiner wrote something on his clipboard.
Once safely out of the parking lot, heading down the main street, the examiner asked Grandpa to take the next left.
“Use your turn-signal, Fred!” Grandma declared. “Left means pull the lever down, remember?” Once Grandpa had safely completed the maneuver, she added, “Don’t forget to turn the blinker off!”
“For God’s sake, Ethel! It goes off automatically! I know how to use the turn-signals!”
“Oh, really? So why did that policeman pull you over last month for failing to signal? Remember? You didn’t enjoy paying that fine, I know that!”
The examiner continued writing notes.
In order to help poor Grandpa, I tried engaging Grandma in conversation to distract her from what Grandpa was doing—but with limited success. In the middle of a chat I managed to get going about her recent jam-making session, she interrupted herself to shout, “Fred, you’re following too close! You’re gonna hit that guy if he stops suddenly!”
“We’re already stopped, Ethel. We’re at a red light.”
Grandma peered through the windshield to see if he was right, then said, “Okay, okay, but it’s turning green now. Go! What are you waiting for?”
“We’re turning right,” Grandpa said through clenched teeth. “I’m waiting for the pedestrians to clear.”
“Turning right?” Grandma said. “Have you got your blinker on?”
On our return route to the test-centre, the examiner asked Grandpa to back into a parking-spot on the street, a space about a car length-and-a-half between two other vehicles.
“Don’t park here, Fred,” Grandma said. “There’s not enough room!”
“There’s lotsa room,” Grandpa replied confidently. He stopped beside the car in front of the space, his right signal blinking, and slowly began to reverse, turning the wheel incrementally as he crept backwards.
“Wait, wait!” Grandma yelled. “There’s cars coming! Someone could hit us!”
“They can see us,” Grandpa said. “Nobody’s going to hit us.” He was alternately checking his right-side mirror and looking over his shoulder through the back window. I thought he was doing marvellously well.
With no warning, there was a loud crash, followed by the sound of breaking glass. Grandpa jammed on the brake, though we’d been hardly moving.
“Now you’ve done it!” Grandma yelled. “I told you someone would hit us!”
“Grandma,” I said disbelievingly, “they hit your door! Why did you open your door while the car was moving?”
“Because I wanted to get out and check if there was enough space to back in here,” she declared righteously. “I still think the space is too small.”
The examiner scribbled furiously on his clipboard.
After a long delay while Grandpa and the other driver exchanged insurance information, and after determining Grandma’s door would close well enough to enable us to continue, we returned to the test-centre. Grandpa trudged forlornly inside behind the harried examiner. By the time he came back, Grandma had moved up to the passenger seat.
“This is where I sit,” she told me firmly. “I’m definitely not a back-seat driver! You should see me drive.” I bit my tongue.
When Grandpa climbed in behind the wheel, I asked, “So, did you pass?”
“I did!” he boasted proudly, and showed us both the certificate he’d been given.
“Well, I find that hard to believe!” Grandma said grudgingly. “But good for you, in spite of everything! You’re lucky I was here to help!”
Later on, when I found myself alone on the front porch with Grandpa, both of us sipping our Stonehooker beers from Cherry Bros. goblets, he said, “You know why I passed, don’t you?”
When I shook my head quizzically he said, “The examiner showed me what he’d written on his clipboard, told me he had no choice but to give me a passing grade.”
“No choice?” I said. “Why? What did he write?”
With a wink, Grandpa said, “He wrote, and I quote, This man must have his license renewed so that his wife will never be the driver in the household.”
“Wow!” I exclaimed.
“Not only that, he’s going to ensure Grandma won’t pass her test next month. By passing me, he makes sure the two of us will still be able to get around under our own steam.”
“That’s great!” I said. “I won’t say a word.”
“Good,” he sighed wistfully. “Now, if only we could get Grandma to follow your example!”
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I have been enjoined by [NAME WITHHELD] to assure readers
that the grandma I live with bears no resemblance to the grandma in this story.